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Message started by stewmills on 08/31/20 at 07:42:28

Title: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by stewmills on 08/31/20 at 07:42:28

Happy Birthday Sarah!

https://sarahemills.org/

Title: Re: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by justin_o_guy2 on 08/31/20 at 09:47:53

I think everyone wants to say
Just that Right thing
And nobody knows what that right thing is..
Dont say anything? Say something and risk saying the wrong thing?
I've read your page, seen the pictures,, and cant even begin t grasp what it might be like to have such a loss.. I dont know where you are, with God.
I hope you've found some comfort in all this by now. If you want to talk, I am available.. .

Title: Re: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by stewmills on 08/31/20 at 11:43:32

Thanks for taking one for the team JOG  ;)

No right thing or wrong thing to say and no expectations or hurt feelings if nothing is said at all. Just putting it out there and respect that everyone takes it in their own way, but hope that it provides comfort to anyone enduring a similar loss and for those that haven't, reminds you of how precious life is and to value those in your life and don't ever be too proud to tell them how you feel (hopefully nice things :-?) and what they mean to you.

I think about Sarah on and off all day long, every day, since the accident. I pray that God does offer some peace and understanding but understandably that whole process is a roller coaster of feelings and emotions that will one day come to pass.  We just take it one day at a time.

Sarah is resting about 2.5 hours from me in south Georgia, but me and my two brothers (we all had to work today) went down there last night at 12:01am (officially the 31st) to visit and wish Sarah a Happy Birthday. Going to be my tradition every year to be there at 12:01am to welcome Sarah into her birthday...doesn't matter if I have to drive through the night to get there....I'll be there.  That's how my crazy family rolls  8-)

Title: Re: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by Serowbot on 08/31/20 at 12:16:45

I'm with Jog...

I hope you have a day filled with loving memories.

Peace,
Serow

Title: Re: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by Ruttly on 08/31/20 at 14:52:57

Yes , As hard as it is to believe , I agree with JOG ! I wouldn’t know what to say otherwise , but needed to post something !

Title: Re: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by ohiomoto on 08/31/20 at 17:17:02

 :'(  

Still so sorry for your loss Stew.  Keep moving forward with her memory.  I'm sure she loves and misses you all very much.

Title: Re: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by MMRanch on 09/02/20 at 07:23:48

Yep , JOG said it best.     The un-timeliness' just leave me without words.   You can be sure that there is someone upstairs looking after you .    

I was sharing with one of my first cousins about how it seemed like our Grandfather stuck-a-round for at least two years after his passing looking over me.   Well , he (cousin) was kind of shocked because he had been experiencing the same feelings.    I believe the Sprit-World is just as Real as the Physical-World , we may only see the effects of it but its here just the same.  

Title: Re: Happy Birthday to my Baby Sister
Post by Armen on 09/02/20 at 19:58:43

Hey Stew,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine.

This is one of the songs they'll play at my funeral. Not sure if you feel it's appropriate. A different story, but gone nonetheless.


Shadows are falling and I'm running out of breath
Keep me in your heart for a while
If I leave you it doesn't mean I love you any less
Keep me in your heart for a while
When you get up in the morning and you see that crazy sun
Keep me in your heart for a while
There's a train leaving nightly called, "When all is said and done"
Keep me in your heart for a while
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-lo
Keep me in your heart for a while
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-lo
Keep me in your heart for a while
Sometimes when you're doing simple things around the house
Maybe you'll think of me and smile
You know I'm tied to you like the buttons on your blouse
Keep me in your heart for a while
Hold me in your thoughts, take me to your dreams
Touch me as I fall into view
When the winter comes, keep the fires lit
And I will be right next you
Engine drivers headed north to Pleasant Street
Keep me in your heart for a while
These wheels keep turning but they're running out of steam
Keep me in your heart for a while
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-lo
Keep me in your heart for a while
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-lo
Keep me in your heart for a while
Keep me in your heart for a while

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