great suggestions everyone. i sincerely appreciate all the input. it's great to hear everyone's opinons as well. since the money is definitely not there for a second bike, we're most likely just going to throw a little money at this one to make it more comfortable.
let's see, what stuff has everyone covered:
security, definitely getting the targus motion alarm- a friend of mine had one of those they're awesome. cell phones- have two, no roaming anywhere, 911 gps. the bike also has lojack.
comfort- looking at some seats on ebay. i do sorda have an iron ar$e as well. trucking is in the blood (dad, uncle, great grandad, great uncle, and some others on some other side of the family that we don't talk to

), and i've also been known to go an extra few miles before my bum goes numb myself. on that note, however, this is a leisure cruise, and i won't be bothered if we only ride for 2 1/2 hours a day at 50mph. there's a lot of cool scheiße to see out there and we plan to take it all in. i've allowed enough $$ for that, and for days where we don't ride at all (i.e. weather too bad, too tired, otherwise preoccupied, etc.).
we also have AAA, which will get us towed somewhere in a worst case breakdown scenario.
that being said, anyone is welcome to join us at whatever point. i'd definitely like to stop and meet some folks from here along the way.
allan, our next big trip after this will definitely be to europe. maybe by then i'll have the 50' ketch that i've been dreaming of and i'll be able to haul the savages across the pond on it.