A looong time ago I promised a recipe or two, but then ran aground...

So, here's
PASTA ALLA NORMALegend has it, this recipe was invented to celebrate composer Vincenzo Bellini's latest opera, "La Norma"
The fundamental ingredients are eggplant (
aubergines),
sliced tomato sauce and
ricotta salata, a thick, compact cheese which started out as something similar to cottage cheese, but was salted and seasoned until hard.
If you can't find ricotta, try
pecorino romano or
grana or
parmigiano.
For 4 servings, your ingredients will be:
- 2 cloves garlic
- 12 leaves of basil
- 2 average sized aubergines (what's average ?

2 softball-sized aubergines

)
- extra-virgin olive oil (or at least olive oil from Chile or Spain, NOT peanut oil or palm oil !

)
- black pepper
- 16-20 oz can of sliced tomatoes for the sauce
- 8 oz. ricotta
- salt
- 16 oz. spaghetti or other pasta by Barilla, Buitoni or another REAL Italian brand (please avoid "MammaMia, Giuseppe's or any wannabe Italian) consider 4oz. per person.
INSTRUCTIONS 
1. Wash and nip the aubergines (never mind they look like squash, there's long and there's ball aubergines...)
2. Slice your aubergines lengthwise, slices about 1/8th in. thick
3. Place the sliced aubergines in a colander or strained and salt generously, then cover with a dish and place a weight on top; this will draw out the excess bitter juices (1 hour or more)
4. In the meantime, prepare the tomato sauce: pour oil in the pan and brown the garlic (I leave it in, others may want to pluck it out) Do NOT fry it until brown/black!
5. Pour the sloced tomatoes and allow to simmer
6. Simmer the tomatoes over a low flame

7. Allow the tomatoes to cook (they should "blip and burp", not fry) until the become very soft
8. If you have a strainer, strain the tomatoes; if not, simply stir gently with a wooden spoon until they become creamy
9. Once creamy or strained, return the tomato sauce to the pan on the stove and allow to settle and condense (evaporate excess moisture) When the sauce is reasonably firm, turn off the fire and sprinkle about half the basil

10. Remember the aubergines ? Oh, yeah, them !

11. Rinse the sliced aubergines under gentle cold water, dry with a cloth
12. Fry the aubergines in oilive oil until golden (not brown overdone, just blonde

)

13. Place the fried aubergines on paper towels to catch the oil as it drips away
14. Boil the pasta of your choice in 1 gal. salty water (hint: bring to a boil, then salt, 3 teaspoons/gal.) boil 1 minute lESS than it says on the label, set alarm
15. Grate the salted ricotta (if you couldn't find salted ricotta, try
pecorino romano or just plain
grana or
parmigiano)

16. As you wait for the pasta to boil, slice the fried aubergines in strips (or just dice them in 4ths)
17. Pour the sliced aubergines in the pan with the tomato sauce and bring to a very gentle simmer
18. When the alarm rings, check the pasta, it should be firm enough to bite into

, not mushy like a boiled marshmallow

Strain the Pasta and pour into the pan with the sauce; stir gwently until it's all amalgamated
Serving suggestion: do NOT ladle out servings in the kitchen; rather, take the whole pan to the dinner table and dish out helpings there.
MOUTH WATERING as you wait !
Sprinkle whatever cheese of your choice, a dash of black pepper and enjoy !
VARIANTIf Ricotta, pecorino and even grana/parmigiano are too strong flavored for your palate, you can try finely diced mozzarella.
In this case, make sure you use the round, marble or tennis ball sized mozzarella which is sold in its own milky liquid, not the vacuum-packed brick-like stuff made from recycled longlife milk

Just cut the mozzarella into small, raisin-size bits and sprinkle generously.
Similarly, you can use zucchini instead of aubergines (in this case, you can avoid steps 3 and 11 (they're sweet, not bitter)
It's a great way to get kids to eat veggies without telling them at all.

WINE : If a Man's Home is his Castle, what's a castle without a Dungeon (i.e., a Wine Cellar) ?
If you're a no-alcohol family, ok, just avoid milk or fruit juice as it will not go well with the tomato sauce.
Vintage water from Granpa's well or a bottle of fizzy water is great.
But if you DO drink wine, a bottle of
chilled dry white will be the perfect companion.

(...even though the Wine Companion insists on a full red like a Chianti or a Burgundy... I find them much too strong for this dish)