Ray , Be proud you have been moderated. Clearly at times I've been way past acceptable behavior and was never moderated , while other times I have apparently stepped on someone's feelings and been moderated when I wasn't even trying. So I quit worrying about it and speak my mind. If I get moderated I simply see it as a victory , remember that just means someone read what you wrote and they didn't like it. This is not a democracy here ,no freedom of speech,no personal rights,we are not in control ! Guess it just depends on my mood to be or not to be RUDE !
I don't want to know who moderates me I simply don't care !