Ship, I did not take your comment personally.
I try to never take anything personally.
That can be a hard message/thought, to convey here.
Have you ever read "The Four Agreements"?
It is a worthy read.
The follow-up books and study guides, I didn't find as good, but too, it is more "group" oriented, and I like to try to get in my head more

My observation was I was hoping to show how a simple word, can often throw a hurdle up, to folks that I believe really want to get along.
If that is not the case, then I ask why do you share your thoughts and beliefs?
Communicating is really a tough nut to crack.
So many things can divert our attention away from our desire goal, to dialogue.
To share, to understand, to gain knowledge of that which escaped you prior to engaging.
Do we share, to hopefully learn, or merely affirm ourselves?
One is healthy, the other, indulgence.
One needs to figger out how much indulging they can handle, be it food, booze, etc, until it becomes a liability with negative consequences in their/our, lives.
Shutting this site down like Bot alluded to today, in this thread/another?
Will not solve anything, except drive the lack of, and opportunity, to better ourselves at communicating, with others, back into our one-sided and sick brain.
Face your accusers, and life challenges, as they come at you, this is life.
It is a win/win.
You either grow in fortitude and conviction, or in knowledge, as you accept your wrongness, and go forth from there...
As in:
GOD, grant me the serenity
to accept the things
I cannot change,
Courage to change the
things I can, and the
wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardship as the
pathway to peace.
Taking, as He did, this
sinful world as it is,
not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make
all things right if I
surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy
in this life, and supremely
happy with Him forever in
the next.
Amen