Ray, your incessant back and forth with TT is accomplishing less than nothing. Jog, is your incessant whining about no replies, yielding any better results than my tactics?
Maybe its us, thinking others are capable of honest dialogue, that is at fault.
You can put lipstick on a pig, however the fact remains, its just a pig.
Now, taking in to the dance, and getting upset folks call your date a pig, well who's shoulders does that fall on?
Pure entertainment, absolutely no value....... useless, other than laughing.
I dance with her, doing the pig trot, then I eat bacon with my hash browns and eggs, the next morning.
If you want to think otherwise buddy, go ahead.....
But who, is deceiving whom?
This place reminds me of the stories that use to accompany travelers going west, way back when White Privilege was vogue.
The wisdom of learning the Rockies, and how to pass over them to a new life, was shared with many wanting the same opportunities, back home.
You winter over on the east slope, and get an early start.
Many were deceived by the spring melt, the Platte River a good example.
Many hearts sank out, spirits broken, by what their eyes saw.....
A river a mile wide, needing to be forded, they felt defeated, unable to continue, devastated.
While some, I'm sure, thought those who told them to come west, had set them up.....
However, the river might truly be a mile wide, as they looked upon it, they did not know it was only an inch deep.

This board will never provide any depth Jog, never......
Think of it thusly......
You've a 5 hour flight ahead of you.
A person has just set next to you, occupying their seat.
They strike up a introduction of themselves, and pursuing conversation....
You can tell them to suck off, or, you can be accommodating......
Knowing either way, in 5 hours it will matter not, of which path you decide.
Its your choice Jog.....YOURS.
Blame me if you like, however, I will be disembarking in 5 hours