Eegore wrote on 08/22/18 at 16:02:57: I think there's two primary factors that make something like this go on for an extended period of time. There's more than that but I think starting with two is good enough.
First many children are not educated at a young age what grooming, molestation or abuse from people they know is. "Stanger Danger" is what most programs teach and that ignores people we know as being identified as potential abusers, which is the most likely to happen.
Second is that groups protect their own, and have no responsibility to report, criminal activity becomes rampant.
Thanks....
Your second observation I can readily agree with.
Your first one, not so sure.
Let’s call it intimidated, but why?
Where is the communication of a child to their parents?
I don’t believe it’s a simple answer.
I will tell this story, and let others come to their own conclusions, as how seemingly innocent “justifications” can really have a unforeseen consequence.
The 60’s.
Friday evening in the suburbs.
Couples join together in enjoying cocktails at a revolving neighbors house.
They are gathered in the living room, moods and conversations improve as the 2nd and 3rd rounds of drinks progress.
The hosting couple have a small son, Johnny.
He was instructed to stay in his bedroom until the guest left.
He didn’t.
Looking in the mirror, he found his nose, ran out into the crowd holding it.
Folks laughed at him, telling him he had such a perfect nose.
The parents beamed, even tho Johnny didn’t listen.
Johnny ran out of the room, only to return holding his ear.
Same results, he got all the attention!
He left.
He returned, only now he is holding his dong......
Folks just clammed up, uncomfortable, his parents livid and embarrassed.
The dad grabbed Johnny, dragging him off to his room.
His dad scolding him while in a drunken state, harsh and blunt, and beyond Johnny’s ability to comprehend.
It was never talked about again.
Johnny grew up having personality conflicts related to sexuality issues, which manifested itself in other matters that were not even of sexual nature.
Do you understand?